2.4 How to set the word order in your mind: Drawing connection of words and Grammar

Before moving onto Grammar, I would draw one the connection between words and grammar. In the previous chapter, we examined the correlation between sounds and word formation that lines up in the composition of a phrase or a statement. How does that go in the practice? Imagine you are approached by an unknown stranger, approaching you awkwardly to ask about a city’s direction or procedure of some sort. What would be your first few words of choice that come to mind before you open your mouth? If you try to be polite, you might start off with some ice-breaking small talk such as a warm greeting or a compliment at the scene. You know the precise moment is extremely crucial. Those with good English training know how to make a proper response immediately; we acknowledge the subject and verb and object (the outcome) within a second. However, things occur as we don’t ever realise.

Take a moment of pause before opening your mouth. You are more likely to first listen to the person that comes to you as you respond accordingly and smoothly. This feedback loop response is an iterative communication for listening to good pronunciation and empirical grammar while repeating the process of utilisation back. During my teaching assistant years, students came to me for help frequently in broken English, but they tried to speak while with reorganising words in their mind. They were nervous, sweating on their palms, hopefully the sentence could lead to an impressive outcome. You could feel it as I calmed them down and asked them to repeat the statement if necessary. They simply needed more patience on my part as a listener, and yet I made my response at a slower speed so that they could reiterate my words. My statement had to be grammatically correct. I held up my responsibility not only as a listener but also as a speaker at the other corner of the room. Imagine you were living in such an intensive language camp in real life, you were in fact receiving, perceiving, intersecting, and then reflecting onto the learning journey. Sometimes barred by our cultural background, absorbing the statement could be an issue. But at least, you have a sense of what comes first and then follows.

Speaking of background, the history of English was formed by a series of chronical evolution from different language-families and branches. It was all about conjunction of cultures, history (folktales), and society that shared a common root. Linguistic students had to write their graduate thesis and normally began with the language family-tree of English. The story began with the Anglo-Saxons era. The Romans brought the Germanic language root from the continental Europe into the British Isles in around the 5^th century. And as a result, some German and Danish genetic root-words were taken into English. In 1066, the infamous Norman Conquest brought the French language with syntax and pronunciation into play. In the process of amalgamation, Greek and Latin roots were then brought into the evolution of English. The conjunction of roots formed today’s known as modern English. This was all before the derivation of English in the later century: American English vs British English. For that historical reason, anyone with a mother tongue related to German, French, Greek or Latin (later derived into Spanish, Portuguese, and Italian) would have their mindset established by default and knowing how to a make a comfortable twist to end the sentence.

Staying within your learning space will embrace your good practice and absorption. Some say a heavy accent could be one main obstacle that limits your courage to learn. But our mother language functions as the backbone of the determination; it is noticeable that non-native English speakers do carry a bit of taste in their linguistic radiation. This extra layer of substance connects enriched speech with styles, tones, vocabulary, speech and volumes. These elements identify who you are and which ethnicity group you are in. This subtle but magical representation is driven by your tone of voice, speaking style, your chosen word, and the facial expression. Communication is based on one’s expression up front, and by that feeling of words in the air, you have a conceptional state of mind handling the connection simultaneously without neglecting rules you might have been taught. However, self-realignment bounces back onto your cognitive awareness while conveying the message with appropriateness and correctness.

Determined by the level of trust, a non-native English speaker would one day become a fluent English speaker. You must be confident to raise your question. You are then escorted to align with each other at the same level of perception and integration. On that level, integrity, trustfulness and credibility, discrimination would not be an issue. And yet you shouldn’t walk negatively down into the spiral of overthinking and over-panicking. In many cases I encountered, some people often outsmart others by speaking faster than their intellectual mindset. They were positioned to make errors even for native speakers. Have you ever received a college exam for a certain social science subject that is so ambiguous with all the grammatical errors and logics? Would you dare to go to your college professor asking him for clarification? Your professor will zero you out! Like walking out of the wood in the dark without preparation, the only survival kit is your natural surroundings of pinewood and the moonlight above your head. But your self-instinct gives you the support of guts to get yourself out of the situation.

In between words and rules, reconciliation is your best friend in the adaptive learning process of thinking, reflecting, expressing in the world of communication. People meet up with expectations as language falls into the subtext during the process. From your word choice to the pronunciation and later the usage of grammar, it reflects your true self in the community. But should we pretend to be who we want to be? The answer would be a yes if you were an actor. On our daily self or shell, I might say, be honest to learn and interact. You will be fully satisfied.

After discussing about words, sounds, and the composition of them, we will then move onto the grammar part: what are they? How to use them? How appropriate to use them? Stay tuned!

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